The Power of
sexuality in Sustaining Life
By Samuel Bartholomew A at Smashword
2017 Samuel Bartholomew
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Table of content
1 - Maintaining Effective Marital Relationship
2 - Tips for Improving Couples Sexual Lives
3 - The Benefits of Sex to the Couple
4 - Why Some Women Find It Difficult to Have Orgasm during sex.
5 - The Effect of Erectile Dysfunction In Relationship
6 - Premature Ejaculation
7 - The Natural Effective Ways of Treating Erectile Dysfunction And
8 - Teens Sex Education
God is Almighty,
merciful and kind, for through his kindness we are able to do all
things. I want to thank God for His guidance and protection and for
making this book a reality.
A worm sentiment of
heartfelt gratitude goes to my parents Mr / Mrs. Aleke Samuel for
their prayers and words of encouragement that has kept me going in my
career, and all the members of my family for their love,
understanding, care and support. May the good Lord whom I serve
tremendously bless them all with abundant blessing.
Worthy of mention
are Ugwu Kelvin, Ugwu Vitalis, Eze Chukwunonso, Ugwu Paul and to all
my good people I say thanks a million.
This book is
dedicated to all couples and orphans
profundity and efflorescence of writing on marriage, the area of sex
education has remained largely undeveloped.
I feel very
impressed by the genuineness and originality of the presentation of
fact by the author.
The booklet “The
Power of Sexuality in Sustaining Life and Marital Relationship”
unveils a lot challenges couple faces in their marital relationship.
lack of sex drive or an unsatisfying sexual life can certainly leads
to infidelity and even to divorce.
The writer provided
laudable solutions that can help couples in revitalizing their sexual
fitness. I recommend the book to all and sundry.
Dr. Solomon Amos
fight over the same five things, money, work, parenting, homework and
sex. Many authors have written extensively on other causes of marital
failure while sex which constitutes greater percentages of marital
collapse has never been scratched.
Sexuality is a
complex, crucial aspect of life and marriage. For most people,
sexuality is healthy as long as it causes neither member of the
couple any distress or emotional turmoil. Healthy sexual function
allows both people to enjoy pleasure and to have realistic
expectations of each other.
It is God desires
that his creatures seek and enjoy sex life with their partners and
sex is indeed a very crucial part of any relationship. Apart from its
function in procreation, it is relaxing and mean for our pleasure.
desire, attraction and trust is an ongoing process that takes effort
and initiative for both individual. The key to rebuilding marital
sexual desire is to enjoy non-demanding pleasuring, increasing
intimacy, and having fun together.
Some couples report
that good sex can bridge the distance gap, in time of stress such as
during the child rearing years. Sex adds longevity to your lifespan
and also contributes to a sense of calm and inner peace.
In contrary, a low
sex marriage can often deteriorate so that conflict, frustration and
boredom become common plea in the relationship. This low sex marriage
is caused by some sexual problems like; erectile dysfunction,
premature ejaculation, and lack of sex drive etc.
Some people went
further in taking pill to maximize their sexual performances. This
pill is very dangerous to the body system. There was a case of a man
who took pill to satisfy his lover. So this man really lasted very
long according to his lover, but when he wanted to ejaculate, the
semen could not come out and the man died while his manhood still
Many people have
lost their lives due to the negative effect of pill. There are many
natural ways you can use to enhance your sexual performance without
ejaculation and low sex drive are sometimes occurs as a result of the
way we programmed our thought towards sex. If you preconceive in your
mind before having sex that you may not satisfy your partner, your
body system will align with that thought and generate fear,
nervousness and all sorts of anxieties that will make you not to
perform. Your thought can affect your sexual life.
If you believe that
you can give your partner a mind blowing orgasm during sex your body
system will reciprocate with that thought by producing energy that
will help you to perform well.
A man attested after
reading one of my books that he was a victim of erectile dysfunction,
which made his wife to abandon him. It was through the knowledge that
he acquired from my book that revitalized his sexual stamina.
Old age sometimes
may lead to erectile dysfunction. But touching enhances erection.
Couple should know how to touch each other well before penetration.
Proper sexual touching reduces anxieties which may lead erectile
makes it easier for a woman to climax during sex. A lady attested how
her husband was gently rubbing her breast. She said that she wanted
to tell her husband to change to other style that she was not
feeling it but before she could know what is happening she have
already started climaxing that both of them were surprise how it
Men are naturally
programmed to achieve orgasm with little stimulation but women were
not created like that. You can’t make a woman to climax easily with
only penetration. You have to spend more time stimulating her
clitoris. Some people call it G-spot. It is located little distance
after the vaginal wall.
The size of your
penis is not the reason why you cannot satisfy a woman, if your
little fingers can turn your partner wired what about your penis
which is larger than your fingers.
You need to
reprogram your mind towards sex. Forget your previous failure and
think of what you can do to improve. Kiss that person neck, thigh and
breast properly. Focus much on stimulation.
Nothing move ladies
much like words. Tell the person how romantic she looks. Tell her how
romantic her breast looks. Word can turn women wired even before sex.
Be romantic Stop complaining believe that you can perform well.
Make sure that you
arrange your room well, because unkempt room can make the person not
to concentrate. Ensure that your room looks sexy. Good musical
background is also very romantic.
complains of pains while having sex, this pains occur due to the
vaginal dryness. I mentioned some fruits that can help to restore
your vaginal fluid in this book.
is sometimes confused with premature ejaculation. The formal is
condition where a man cannot achieve or maintain an erection firm
enough for sexual intercourse. Such men with erectile dysfunction
rush orgasm in order to finish before their erection fails while
premature ejaculation is inability for a man to last long in bed.
Also, a lot of women
find it difficult to reach orgasm during sex. They attribute it to
dysfunction. Well, it’s not dysfunction but lack of proper
stimulation and concentration when having sex.
So, there may be a
case for saying that there is a G-sport orgasm, possibly a vaginal
one and one that originate in the clitoris. Infrequent sexual
touching is associated with sexual and orgasm difficulties.
Knowing how to
stimulate this area with your fingertips may be a useful addition to
your bed time repertoire and give extra pleasure. But trying to reach
the G-sport with your penis during sex is not easy, you might just
possibly have success if the woman is sitting astride you and facing
you, and leans backwards so, your penis presses against her front
“The power of
sexuality in sustaining life and marital relationship” is the book
that addresses a lot of sexual problem that couples face. With this
book your marriage and your healthy sexual life will be revitalized.
This book also
covered a broader scope of teen sex education, which can equip
parents to teach their kids about sex
Marriage is defined
differently and by different entities, based on cultural, religious
and personal factors. Marriage is a social and legal contract between
two individuals that units their lives legally, economically and
emotionally. “Shari Strilof, 2016”
Being married also
gives legitimacy to sexual relationship within the marriage. A good
marriage is best friends with a passion to build a strong
relationship, commitment and selflessness.
A marriage is
brought into being by the lawful manifested consent of persons who
are legally capable. This consent cannot be supplied by man power.
Matrimony consent is an act of will by which a man and a woman by an
irrevocable covenants mutually give and accept one another for the
purpose of establishing marriage (Can 105 111 & 2). Also for
matrimonial consent to exist, it is necessary that the contracting
parties be at least not ignorant of the fact that marriage is a
permanent partnership between a man and a woman, ordered to the
procreation of children through some form of sexual cooperation. This
ignorant is not presumed after puberty “can. 10006.”
Genesis Chapter One
and two teach that man and woman are made in the image of God. As I
understand how God made my wife, I can better complete her as a
woman. We are fearfully and wonderfully made “the bible declares
‘Psalm 139:14’, my wife’s femaleness is as essential as my
maleness in the working out of God’s desire in our marriage.
Marriage is a call
to ongoing intimacy not only sexual intimacy, but also the
intentional develop of emotional, intellectual and spiritual
intimacy. So if the couples neglect emotional bonding or don’t pay
ongoing attention to each other, all parts of the relationship
suffer, including the physical expression of love.
attraction, however often takes a conscious decision to put time and
effort into a dimension of the relationship that use to come
effortlessly. It requires setting one’s spouse as the priority
before work, before cleaning and even before kids. This may mean
having occasional dinner alone “without children” going on dates
and bringing to their relationships new ways of connecting.
Couple having fun
face the time issue there isn’t any! If you wait for quiet periods
when romantic behavior can surface and there is energy for prolong
lovemaking, you will only get to have sex a couple of times a year
when you get away without the Children! You need to schedule a date
night when you plan to go to bed early enough that you are both still
awake with a mutual commitment to make love. The door should be
locked to avoid unexpected entrance of your kids. Of course, you
don’t need to be limited to nights. Many couples find the best time
in the morning after children have left for school. Others are able
to work out lunch time liaisons.
If the Children are
older, there is the usual embarrassment about “what will” the
children think?” look at it this way, parents hide their sexuality
from their Children and then expect their children to grow up and
understand that sex is an expression of love between two adults. It
is healthy to be open to your children that husband and wives express
their love by touching each other in special ways. It is Healthy for
children to know that their parents are lover so don’t hide the
fact that you are.
So, sex promotes
intimacy, reassurance, and the realization that both parties are
wanted and needed. It is hard to find researched evidence, but most
surveys point to the fact that a lack of sex in a relationship is a
leading factor in break – ups.
Once the sex goes,
so many other problems follow. It has also been proven that couples
especially men will live longer-happy lives if they remain in a
steady loving relationship. There is no doubt that a healthy sex life
is one of the most important factors in a thriving and successful
One dimension of
masculine/feminine sexuality worth exploring is how spouses
complement each other, just as magnets are draw to each other from
different poles, so too men and women are drawn to each other, not
only because of similarities, but also for the difference.
For example, men
often show passion by pursuing and initiating lovemaking focusing on
purpose, protection and commitment; while women playfully tend to
provoke and entice, focusing on vulnerability and feelings,
exaggerating these two polarities can stimulate passion.
Some couples report
that good sex can bridge the distance gap, in time of stress, such as
during child rearing years. Good sex is free, adds longevity to your
lifespan. It’s excellent for your cardiovascular health and can
contribute to a sense of calm and inner peace.
In addition, men and
women are different, when it comes to sex. Unfortunately many couples
failed to reflect on these differences and integrate them into
understanding of how to be successful partners.
Starts with arousal
patterns, men are quick to be arouse and relatively quick to achieve
orgasm. The “spike” arises sharply and drops off just as sharply.
Women are aroused
more slowly and after achieving orgasm, tend to remain at a high
plateau of arousal before dropping off. These are very different
physiological patterns. No wonder it is a challenge for couples to
really experience mutual satisfaction. These differences must be
incorporated into the lovemaking process.
The simplest way to
do this is, regardless of who initiates the foreplay is for men to
focus on pleasuring their wives, bringing them to an initial orgasm
before focus is given to bringing the male orgasm. It is also
critical for male to understand what will help their wives achieve
orgasm. Clitoral stimulation is usually a key component that can make
a woman to scream in love during intercourse. Clitoral stimulation is
being done mutually by either partner during intercourse